Thursday, November 27, 2008 @ 1:26 AM

alright here's what i have to share with everyone
it's done out of boredom, hope you'll find it meaningful.

The simple truth about love

Falling in love is just like kissing - no two people do it the same way. A legendary romance may begin with the briefest of beautiful encounters or a casual introduction by a mutual friend, who is then completely forgotten in all the excitement. You might feel the hairs on the back of your neck stand up as you turn to meet the piercing gaze of an enchanting stranger across a crowded room, across a parking lot, or a bowling alley. The location isn't all that important. Often you are just sitting minding your own business and then BOO! Love suddenly hits you out of the blue, and your pulse is off and running. That such a fleeting chance encounter can result in so many overwhelming feelings tells us a lot about the power of love. Like the sun or a fiendishly expensive designer frangrance, love is an intoxicating force that draws all living creatures. Love inspires us to do great, beautiful, terrible things and a bunch of weird and stupid stuff. That's because when we fall in love, our reason and perspective become distorted, and we discover the lovers' paradox. Suddenly, we have clear purpose, but we suffer overwhelming indecision. The affectionate attention we receive means we feel more self-affirmed and radiant that ever before, and yet we are sick with self-doubt and insecurity.

There's definitely someone out there who is perfect for each of us, so it makes no sense to grab the first cute butt that walks by. Dont be afraid to slow things down. Really think about your feelings. Run through a few emotional scenarios in your mind and see how they look and feel. There's a reason we feel so shy when we first meet someone special. Both people are seriously checking each other out, looking for and revealing some very personal information. The process is all about trust. Slowly, we get closer and closer. Some things just shouldn't be rushed, and love is always worth waiting for. In it's early stages, love is beyond wonderful. Each moment together feels like a passionate embrace in a magic forest. You gallop tirelessly in perpetual and blessed sunshine, your feet a few inches above the ground. In other words, our perceptions of ourselves and our beloved can become a touch idealized. The truth is that love is always beautiful, and it may even feel perfect. But it can never be so, not all the time. Falling in love is an exquisite but complex coming together of two individuals, and a beautiful, dyanamic living relationships always has ups and downs. The irritating thing about falling in love is that you dont suddenly get transported to the mythical kingdom of coupledom, where everything is designed to make your relationship perfect.

Personal grooming also takes on fresh energy, sometimes to the point where we change virtually everything about our appearance that turned our admirer's head in the first place. Though it is wonderful in so many ways, falling in love can be a very unsettling experience. Poetic torment churns in your soul and keeps you from sleeping. Whenever you close your eyes, the object of your desire floats across a dreamscape toward your waiting lips. In fact, the only time we really wake up to reality is when a new lover is actually approaching. Unfortunately, at that exact moment you molecular sturcture turns to water. You try to stay calm and composed, endeavouring to present a picture of chrisma and confidence. You fail. All those breathless secrets in your heart that you rehearse a thousand times are now ready to share gently with a tender ear, you suddenly blurt out, sounding like a rare caller from an ancient civilisation. The key word is patience. In other words, nothing can hold love back. True love overcomes anything and everything. Realising the power of love feels like a light switch is suddenly turned on inside your heart. The world looks different. Or perhaps you are looking at it differently. Your search draws to a close. You have finally found true love, or true love has finally found you.
"Hello!"
The end. ( but actually it's just the beginning:D )